Stage six: At peace

Finally, over time, you feel at home in your new environment, as much as in your original culture. You’re at peace with the journey you’ve been on, and you enjoy the integration into their culture. You know a part of their culture will remain with you, even when you leave.

You don’t value one culture over another. You think objectively about your own culture. Yes, homesickness may always return, but you don’t prioritise your own cultural behaviours. In your new environment, you begin to feel like you belong; you appreciate the culture you are now a part of. Life is easier.

Acceptance and finding peace in your new home does not necessarily mean that you understand every single aspect of your new culture. Rather, it means that you’re still thriving in the new environment, despite not understanding everything.

Possible emotions you might experience once you’re at peace

• Serenity
• Sense of belonging
• Feeling whole or complete
• Kindness
• Happiness
• Contentment

Examples

“Sorry, Dad, I can’t phone home tonight. I’m meeting friends for dinner.”

“It’s so nice that the barista knows my order by heart now.”

“That’s funny, I said ‘Sweet as’ and actually meant it! It’s a part of my vocab now.”

What you can do to manage your emotions when you feel at peace

This is the time to enjoy your life and your WHV to the fullest. Remembering that your WHV will come to an end one day, maximise every moment of fun and adventure. Make the most of this phase: enjoy time with friends, go for drinks, plan beach days, and tell your loved ones at home about all the cool experiences you’re having.